hi there. i'm katie. i'm eighteen years old. i live in northern virginia but i'm heading eighteen hours away to the university of missouri-columbia in the fall. i love politics and television. i consider myself a mix of liz lemon and ross geller. i act like a cliche on a daily basis, drinking too much tea and reading too much sylvia plath. music, pillows, and my friends are the only things that keep me somewhat sane. i don't quite know what i want to do with my life but i know i want it to be anything but typical. i love little dresses, warm weather, chinese food, fresh air, inside jokes, giraffes, adventures, and sing-a-long movies.
she's over this place, needs to feel the midwest wind in her face
this is what a feminist looks likealive in the age of worry
smile in the age of worry
go out in the age of worry
and say "worry? why should i care".
I am an excitable person who only understands life lyrically, musically, in whom feelings are much stronger as reason. I am so thirsty for the marvelous that only the marvelous has power over me. Anything I can not transform into something marvelous, I let go. Reality doesn’t impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. No more walls
hearts don't break. they bruise, then get better.
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Ginger Snaps Back: People you will meet in discussions about sexism on the internet:
- Mr “Welcome to the real world”. Sexism happens. Always has, always will. Might as well suck it up and deal with it. Try to change society? What are you, mad? I don’t like it either, sunshine, but just be good and don’t make a fuss.
- Mr “Oh my god calm down it was a joke”. Everyone knows if you tack “lol” onto the end of a sentence, no one can get mad at you because you were being hilarious, and if anyone gets offended they’re being an uptight prick. You truly are the George Carlin of our time.
- Miss Validator. “I’m a girl, and I think this is HILARIOUS. Calm down feminists!” Watch as everyone in the thread uses her as yet another reason why you are stupid and oversensitive and they are hilarious and right. May also “apologise for her gender” in a cosmic blast of internalised misogyny.
- Mr “I refuse to believe this happens”. He would never cat call or rape and isn’t sexist at all and thinks gender roles are outmoded. Therefore, he thinks, everyone else thinks just like me too. Can’t line up women’s experiences of sexism with his own worldview, so dismisses everything they say, demanding “proof”. Sees no irony in this.
- Mr “actually you’ve got this the wrong way round”. Silly you! This is looks, feels, smells and tastes like misogyny but is actually misandry. Don’t worry, easy mistake to make, anyone could have done it. Just don’t say I’m wrong or I’ll link you to pages explaining why you have female privilege and call you an ignorant bitch.
- Mr EvoPsych! Has never studied this but has skimmed some articles and therefore can explain every facet of how human behaviour works. And why it’s just best and most natural for everyone to stick to their traditional gender roles. Because that’s how we did it in 10000bc. Women and men are just different, that’s why you’re not as smart as him.
- Mr *totally unrelated point*. Seriously dude, how did you even get here. Seems to be having a totally different discussion than the one you’re having, then whines that you aren’t addressing his points.
- Mr “I’m so not the problem here. Hello ladies.” Ugh, photoshopping is TERRIBLE, fashion is STUPID and I tell my girlfriend not to wear makeup because makeup is GROSS. I like small boobs - take that societal norms! You don’t have to have plastic surgery anymore, girls, because I like’em small. Stop dieting! I like a woman with meat on her bones. Read Proust! I like a lady who’s well-read. I don’t understand why you would want an item of clothing that cost more than £50 - you don’t need that to attract me, madam. What do you mean, you like wearing eyeliner and don’t dress yourself solely for my benefit? I told you I don’t like high heels! STOP DOING THINGS I DON’T LIKE!
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“May also “apologise for her gender” in a cosmic blast of internalised misogyny.”
COSMIC BLAST OF INTERNALIZED MISOGYNY. let the brilliance of that phrase sink in for a second. Mmmhm.
Too accurate. Except for the fact this happens in real life, not just on the internet.
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I’ve never broken someone else’s heart before. I’m the one who loves more, ya know? It’s my thing. But now I’m breaking this boys heart because I can’t be with him and I want to run myself over with a car. But he’ll get over me. I’m not that great, I promise. He’ll be fine.
